Whenever we get down on ourselves, my kids and I play the Happy Game.
The rules are simple: You take turns asking each other,
“What are you happy about?”
The best is when they ask me, completely unprompted,
“Daddy, what are you happy about?”
My answer will be something like,
“I’m happy it’s Friday and we get to hang out tomorrow.”
My 7-year-old daughter, Evie, will say something like, “I’m happy I finished my project at sewing class today,”
My 3-year-old son, Tiger, is the best at this game. His answer is something like, “I’m happy for seeing a firetruck.”
We go around the circle two or three times or until Tiger gets distracted by another firetruck or school bus.
By the end, we’re all happier, no matter how crappy we felt at the beginning.
The first time my wife and I played this game, we thought it was some high-minded concept the kids wouldn’t understand.
We went back and forth a few times, then Evie chimed in, “My turn! I’m happy we went to grandma’s,” then said, “Tiger’s turn!”
We laughed and said, “Tiger, what are you happy about?”
“I’m happy about my blanket,” he said while holding it up.
Our minds were blown!
How did they even know what we were talking about?
Turns out, kids practice gratitude and being happy ALL … THE … TIME!
Remember being a kid, and how excited you got about new toys, new trips to different places, new activities at school?
You hadn’t “done enough” or “seen enough” to be jaded, and you appreciated everything life threw at you.
At some point, we lose that and get lost in the vicissitudes of life.
But when you play the Happy Game, all that melts away.
Try it! Next time you’re in the car with your kids or having coffee with a friend, ask them, “What are you happy about?”
Whatever they say, respond and tell THEM what you’re happy about. Then ask again … and do it at least three times.
By the end, you’re both going to be MUCH happier.
Coach “happy dad” Jay
Outdoor Guest Day: Saturday, June 15
Friends and family welcome. No prior CrossFit experience required. Please arrive 5-10 minutes early to sign a waiver if this is your first time! Classes start at 8 a.m. and 9 a.m. sharp. We’ll give more details on where to meet next week.
Summer of Skills!
Our first rowing clinic was a hit! I saw many of you pick up some new cues and skills to help. Hopefully it made Thursday’s workout a little more fun!
Our next few skills sessions will be:
6/12: Fix Yo’ Squat (mobility) with Heidi
6/19: Improve Your Handstand Skills with Cullen
6/26: Improve Your Ring Skills with Wendy
7/3: (off for Hero Challenge)
Please click here to RSVP for next week’s mobility session. There’s no cap on the number of athletes, but I would like to know what you struggle with MOST.
Is there something you’re dying to learn more of? Please drop a line to email@example.com.
Mark Freeman (of Freeman Technique, Cirque du Soleil, and Cal Gymnastics fame) will be running his clinics on Wednesdays at 5:45 a.m., starting JUNE 19. Cost is $20 for members; $25 for non-members. Our regular 5:45-a.m. Group Coaching class will run alongside.
Stay tuned: In the coming weeks we will have specialty courses on endurance, Olympic lifting, strongman, basic gymnastics, and more.
Hero Challenge: July 1-4
We’ll complete 4 Hero workouts in 4 days. It’ll be like the 12 Days of CrossFit, but shorter, sunnier, and perhaps a little heavier!
You’ll continue to see some Hero WODs sprinkled throughout the programming to get you prepped. This would be a great time to start working on some key skills—you may see some chest-to-bar pull-ups and other high-skill gymnastics, so get a jump on it!
Workouts for the Week
MissFit: 6 Rounds: (95/65)
This should be HEAVY. Like how DT is heavy—but HEAVIER.
Basically, you should be able to do the squats unbroken, but be uncertain whether you can make the rest without putting the bar down for multiple rounds. This one will feel scary. Have a strategy and hit it methodically.
If you’re uncomfortable with the movements, find a moderate weight and hit 6 rounds.
First round unbroken, MAYBE.
Fast 3 single power cleans
1 power clean + 4 squats + one S-to-OH
8 toes-to-bars/pull-ups (1 T2B + 1 PU =1)
8 rolling pistols/side
6 rolling pistols/side
4 rolling pistols/side
2 rolling pistols/side
1 rolling pistol/side
Have fun with the gymnastics skills today. The T2B/Pull-Up is ONE OF EACH and a big test of coordination in your kip. If you’re not there yet with one of those movements, you’ll work on the cadence of linking toes-to-bars, or mixing in knees-to-chest with a straight leg raise.
With all of these items DESCENDING, each round should feel lighter and brighter. Push the pace on the run as you keep going … accelerate! Long one today. Shoot for 20-25 mins. Hard cap at 30.
Straight leg raise/K2C (working coordination in the kip)
Candlestick roll to squat (use plate or mat assist as needed)
Scale HS hold to 1-2 good attempts and something challenging
-HS kick up
-pulling feet from wall
-shoulders against box
-freestanding (w/or w/out wall)
Choose a weight for KB swings that feels fairly easy. Just heavy enough to get your heart rate up. The goal is to PRACTICE handstands today.
C. 2 mins/side superfriend calf smash
2 mins gut smash
A. Bench press: 5 x 7
Add weight as you go and find a heavy set of 7 for today.
B. In pairs:
3 rounds for total reps:
-1 min rest-
Partner 2 rows for calories
Partner 1 AMRAP
6 DB snatches (40/25)
9 air squats
-1 min rest-
Score is total number of reps, cals + AMRAP (AMRAP = 18 reps/round)
Today is a solid training day—your challenge is to maintain an aggressive but not all-out pace on the row and keep moving quickly through the AMRAP. When rowing this time domain for calories, aim for efficiency. 1 calorie per 1-2 strokes would be ideal (3 cals every 4-5 strokes is usually my aim).
To do this: Keep stroke rate manageable (under 30 is the goal), and push HARD through your legs. If you blow up your heart rate too quickly, your pace will suffer more in future rounds.
This one will be a test of strategy, composure, and mental toughness.
How to win:
1. thrusters in 1-2-3 sets
10 is unbroken
In your 20s, do NOT put down the bar before 12 reps. Leave a second, smaller set if not UB.
In your 30s, 12-10-8 or similar. Again, leave fewer reps for the end.
2. Stay composed on the burpees. Smooth and steady wins over fast and choppy every time.
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Saturday—TRAIN—Guest Day @ Beach!
100′ run with log
50′ walking lunge
50′ broad jump
20 log squats
Wear clothes you don’t mind getting dirty! Guests, family, and friends welcome. We’ll meet at the beach near the condos in Marina Bay (see map at Hale) at 8 a.m. and 9 a.m. Leave an extra 10 minutes to walk to site from car.
21-15-9 reps for time of:
Rx insano: 315/225
This is a quick, heavy workout Larry’s been eyeing from the Rogue Invitational (one of the CrossFit Games qualifiers).
NOW, that said, if you’ve trained hard this week, scale back. Plan 10 reps + at your deadlift weight. The burpees will blow up your forearms and grip a bit.
If you know what you’re getting yourself into and you’re here to THROW DOWN, get after it, but keep it cute. Take your time to set up for heavy deadlifts and stay composed.